Day: July 19, 2016

  “It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it,” one spouse will say to another in my office. I have wished that I had a dime for every time I’ve heard someone say it. Then I think, “Oh wait, I’m a marriage counselor, I do have a dime for every time I’ve heard it.” But you get the point, this is a common sentiment. It is common because human being aren’t merely fact machines. When someone gives us the facts, it isn’t enough. Similarly, when we are in… Continue reading It’s Not What You Say; It’s How You Say It