Which is harder? Owning my own stuff – my meanness, thoughtlessness, judgementalism… and asking for forgiveness? Or is it harder to wipe the slate clean and let someone completely off the hook when they have really hurt me? I’m not sure… I find myself more willing and able to see my own fallenness and less surprised too. Jerkiness might be a more appropriate word than “fallenness.” (Actually, there are stronger words that you can’t put on a blog.) But over time, it is clearer and clearer to me that I… Continue reading Forgiveness: Which is Harder?