Day: October 22, 2019

  People have trouble resolving conflict.  Every marriage counseling session is, in part, trying to undo an unhealthy pattern of conflict resolution.  But I know a secret.  And if people used this one secret, I might lose half my counseling business.  Still, I share this secret with everyone, yet no one seems to catch on.  But you, dear reader, are different.  So I am going share it with you. Here it is: Don’t try to resolve conflict when you are hurt and angry.  Wait until you are just hurt. “That’s… Continue reading the secret to resolving conflict